ThE B!t@h WaS rUDe

Yeah...what she said!

2011-12-16T17:37:00.000-08:00

"If I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive" ~Audre Lorde

You think you know, but you have NO idea!

2011-12-15T23:00:00.000-08:00

Yesterday I was informed that a young lady who was an undergrad when I was in Grad School has, allegedly, committed suicide. She was a missing person, but an article published yesterday is speculating that the person seen jumping from the bridge was her. Her car and id were found, but no body has been found or identified as of yet.

I knew of her, but I didn't KNOW her. We had friends in the same circles, but we never actually had a conversation, but I still mourn her tragic ending (if it is indeed true). I've known several people over the years to take their own lives and it has never really weighed this heavily on me. I know why it is and I feel bad because the last time that I was in the same room with her I was rude, I was being myself, but I was rude. Yes, I do realize that my not speaking to her and practically ignoring her did not make her take her own life, but what if my actions compounded with her issues made her feel that more isolated? I'll never know the answer and it is quite possible that I'm really reading more into the situation than is necessary. However, I do believe that we all should think about how we really treat people outside of our personal circles, cliques, and friendships.

This young lady was smart. I know this because I remember her being involved with honors societies and I also remember her creating a student organization. I also knew that she had plans to go into the health field in some capacity and she also accomplished those goals. She made it through Pharmacy School and was in the midst of her residency when she decided to, allegedly, jump off of a bridge. What could have possibly been going through her psyche as she, allegedly, committed that act? No one will ever really know, but my heart is still heavy. It is heavy because those that I am close to were close to her and they are hurting and all I can do is listen.

My heart is also heavy because I know that she will not be the last. Communities of color all over this world has a stigma attached to counseling and mental health services. We are skeptics and we have every right to be due to historical episodes that have let us down time and time again. This, however, does not give us the right to continue to watch our community suffer silently. ASK FOR HELP, OFFER HELP, SPEAK UP because as Audre Lourde once wrote..."Your silence will not protect you".

All I can do is to continue to advocate for those around me to not feel alone. I can also continue to grow and truly watch how my actions affect those around me. My ramblings are just that...ramblings, but I mean it and I own it.

This is the young lady who, allegedly, took her life for an unknown reason and her name is Tosin Oleyowo!

It's been a long time I shouldn't have left you...

2011-12-15T22:16:00.000-08:00

Well, it was almost a year ago that I posted. It isn't that I've run out of things to call out, but the folks here in Syracuse are just a little extra sensitive and like to take screen shots and shit, but now I just say fuck 'em all. It is what it is and I only try to speak the truth. If I'm wrong...prove it!

The B!t@h Was rUDe is back and I promise to write at least a few sentences often to keep you all apprised of the fuckery that is my life.

I am because WE are

2010-12-20T21:23:00.000-08:00

As I approach another decade of life, I have to start find my voice. I find my self being the outsider of many conversations that involve ME. Weird, isn't it? My importance in this world is up to me to define and I promise myself to acknowledge my worth going forward.

In other news:
Tonight I had dinner with a friend, a brother from another mother who is undoubtedly one of the most brilliant black minds, scratch that, minds period that I have had the pleasure of knowing. In my journey in life I have had the fortune to meet many people, but very few actually care about ME as a person, a man, a black man, a black man with some common sense, and a sense of self. in all that he has done for me, he is a man alone. He is a brother in the academy and we all know that "they" don't play fair when it threatens their power and privilege. His presence at a certain institution of higher learning is a source of pride for students, staff, and faculty of color...whether they know it or not. This is a man who fights for women, blacks, browns, yellows, gays, et al. without thinking twice about it. He welcomed me into his home sight unseen after a very brief conversation on the phone, he gave me money to help me move to NY, and he, more than once, told me that it isn't my fault and that I'm not crazy for saying what needed to be said, and doing what needed to be done on behalf of my students. After 6 or so years at this institution he was denied tenure. The venerable position that all in the academy strive for has alluded him because of ignorance. In all the support that he gives, he was left alone, he was set-up by those who should be on his side and it isn't fair.

We had dinner tonight and it was great just hearing how he is doing in spite of this news. He's strong, tall, large, darkskin, dread head, and brilliant and one day all of the above will not be held against him. Like myself, and probably more, he is a fan of Ellison and during dinner he reminded me of a quote that I often use to remind myself that it isn't me, that i'm not crazy. It reads "I am an invisible man. I am a man of substance, of flesh and bone, fiber and liquids - and I might even be said to possess a mind. I am invisible, understand, simply because people refuse to see me." In some ways I'm writing this to let him know that I see him and that I appreciate him and that I love him for being him. One day he will be able to empower minds without having to worry about them being intimidated because of his brain, his stature, his skin tone, his hair. One day he won't have to beg for kids that look like him to take his courses. One day...

Truth be told...

2010-06-07T21:14:00.000-07:00

"To be a Negro in this country and to be relatively conscious is to be in a rage almost all the time."

— James Baldwin

Is You Is or Is You Ain't???

2010-05-19T19:36:00.001-07:00

So, I just got back from Walmart with a friend and a thought came to my mind as I spent my money at the devil's playground a.k.a. WallyWorld. Before going to Walmart we stopped by the mall in order for her to purchase some lipstick (It was not organic NARS). I asked her the question, but it wasn't just about her. I wonder what the real motives of those who go natural or remain natural and then judge those who aren't, but don't look at all that they do that negates some of the points that they make when explaining their "natural" being. Yes, a run-on sentence, but you know I don't give a hot damn. Now I have nothing against people who choose to go or remain natural, but don't hate on those who choose to indulge in the chemicals. However, I digress.

The thought came to my mind about those who go natural or choose to remain natural. I've heard some people who say that natural is better for your hair and better for your body as a whole. Those statements can in fact be true. My question then becomes what if all you do is wear natural hair, but use all manmade products, foods, makeup, etc? Do the others not count? If you care about your hair should you not worry about the temple?

Now, yes some people do think about the big picture and make a commitment to live a natural lifestyle in total. I commend them and respect it because they have taken an assessment of how they live and how everything plays a part. I'm not saying that all natural people do or don't do this, but I wonder how many people just do it because their friends are doing it? Are you natural or faux-natural?

This is a rush post and I know that I should articulate myself better, but I had to get it out while it is fresh on the brain. Thoughts?

Yeah.So.Umm

2010-05-13T19:06:00.000-07:00

YeahSoUmmm,

I took a break, but I'm back. Not like Whitney though. Don't judge me...at least not before I judge you!!!!

I HATE PEOPLE

2009-09-18T19:50:00.000-07:00

THEY GET ON MY DAMN NERVES!!!

Excuse me Mr. Brown and I ain't talking about Bobby!!!

2009-09-07T20:08:00.000-07:00

So, I have been silent during the whole Chris Brown/Rihanna saga that has plagued the world for a good part of the year. My silence has not been because I took one side over the other and I am in no way condoning the behavior of Chris Brown. To be quite honest, I just don't care. There are other things going on in the world that I could be concerned with and Chris Brown and Rihanna don't rank high on my list of priorities.

I have know many women over the years who have been victims of Domestic Abuse or Intimate Partner Violence (you can choose which term you prefer). Did it take Chris Brown beating Rihanna's ass to make me more aware....HELL TO THA NAW! The media and the fanatics have chosen to make these two the posterchildren for this particular issue. If Chris Brown wasn't Chris Brown and Rihanna wasn't Rihanna would we care? What if it were just Monique and Sean from around the way? Two people who live very privileged lives and who for the most part can remain above the law (as much as any Black people really can in this country at least) get more attention than the rising rate of unemployment, the truth behind the health care debate, and my 40 damn acres and a mule (I will take a check in lieu of the 40 acres and a mule). No, on second thought give me my damn 40 acres and a mule...I want to be a land owner!!!!

So, I was shocked to find out through that wonderful social networking tool, The Book of Face, that Chris Brown was giving an "interview" on Larry King. Now, I was like ok, he is going to fess up, own up to his mistake and speak out against DV/IPV in a way that would speak to the demographic that he represents. Cool! Did that really happen? No! OH MY LAWD...when I tell you that I was beyond pissed that I wasted my energy to change my channel to CNN to basically hear him say that "it was unfair to compromise his and Rihanna's privacy to go into detail regarding those moments." In the words of Ocho Cinco "CHILD PLEASE" your privacy went out the window when you beat that ass!

Here are some of my questions I want to ask:

Why did you beat her ass?
Is it true that she gave you a disease?
Will your PR team still have a job after this TOMFOOLERY?
Was it your idea to have those cool colors on tv (the sweater & bow tie) with your complexion? (I did go to school for fashion...I guess it paid off) LOL
Have you thought about a speech coach or speech pathologist?
Why was your mother there? (She should've smacked the shit out of him on national damn tv and called it damn night)
When is your next album coming out?
Have you apologized to her personally?
If not, when will you apologize?
Did you find Jesus or just a spiritual advisor to get you through your SHAME?

I know I'm contradicting myself by dedicating so much time to this old a$$ story, but I had to get it off of my chest because I'm sick of the both of them and this issue. Please watch the clip.......

I know that people go through things and I promise I am not judging Chris Brown or Rihanna for this situation. I am judging them for their reactions or lack thereof. They both have an opportunity to highlight an important issue; instead Rihanna says nothing and he tried to say something, but the bastard can't really talk! Own up to it and move on. If R. Kelly can piss on a girl and still sell millions you will be OK.

This biiiiiiiiiiiittttttttttttttchhhhhhhhhhh was and still is RUDE!!!!

My girl cousins....they gon' rock you!!!!

2009-08-18T22:18:00.000-07:00

This is some HOT MESS!!!!! Why did she go to court looking like that? Every time I watch the videos I just want to yell out "Yeah Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....we be club'n"

Now I respect Big Sister b/c she had to let her know that it ain't going down like you thought it was. Watch and see for yourself:

"We will take it the legal route...if that doesn't work then we'll see you around Oakland" = Classic

They neva shoulda gave u nukkas freedom!!!!!!!

2009-08-18T18:09:00.000-07:00

One night I was chill'n on my bed with the laptop doing the Facebook thing and a Bruh had the video below posted on his wall. I thought I was prepared when I started watching, but quickly figured out that this shit was out of control.

Take a look for yourselves:

Woman Takes A Beating At A Oakland Salon
Uploaded by WESTSIDEFORLIFE - Family events, birthdays and parenting videos.

Peep this...The owner of the salon (the woman get'n that ass waxed) was in her shop minding her business when Tyquesha and Dejonae came in b/c they heard that the salon owner was talking smack about them and putting their business in the streets. For 6 damn minutes she was locked in her own damn shop while another friend, whose name is probably Alize, recorded the beatdown. Now I know that the shit was an unfair fight, but how in THE HELL you get beat up in your own salon? I would have picked up a HOT curling iron and commenced to whoop'n some ASS!!!!! Phyllis always told me that there is no such thing as a fair fight and I would have torn that place to pieces before I just let you whoop my ass like that and you had people outside looking in at you get'n your ass beat. OH HELL TO THE NAW!!!!!!

Now you may be asking yourself how the video got released? You are, I know you are. Do you know these heifers put the damn video on YouTube? Yesssssss....You-damn-Tube!!!!!

I watched the video in amazement because we will get mad as hell when "THEY" talk about us, but we allow this shit to happen. There more commentary to come b/c you have to know that there is a part II.

However, for the record these NASTY ASS, LOW DOWN, BOTTOM FEEDING, TRIFL'N WENCHES ARE RUDEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!

I've been gone for a minute now I'm back at the jumpoff!!!!!!

2009-07-29T19:16:00.000-07:00

What up my people? Yes, I've been absent from the blog world for a little while, but I'm back and I don't plan to take another hiatus.

"FEE FI FO FIGGA, BOY, I DO HATE A NI**A!"

2009-06-14T21:39:00.000-07:00

I don't even know where to begin. The first time I watched this video I think I flat lined at least twice from shock, shame, and laughter. "Who in the HELL left the gate open?" I'm all for everyone making a way for themselves, but "we got to do better." I'm not mad that transsexuals are making their way into the media, but do you have to do it like this? Why not take a page out of Laverne's book and at least try and keep it classy?

The south is near and dear to me, but if I keep seeing this 'bama shit pop up over the internet somebody might get hurt. First I have to endure Geisha and her underground hit "Shit'n on you hoe"..."You don't want no problems 'cause p^$$y hoe i'll solve them" and the Red House "where black people and white people buy furniture...and hispanics too" but now this.

Do I start with the sad cinematography, the bootleg dance, the kids shakin' the "poak chops and ham hocks" they hope to have one day, or do I start with the stripper performance on the pole in the front yard? Forgive them Father for they know not what they do. There was money to record a single, but not for a good camera? WHAT THE FUCK?

Why are the little girls dancing like that in front of adults or even at all? It's cute now, but when she ends up being a "jump" and pregnant I want her parents/guardians to watch this video and the shit they created. I do believe that my theory has been validated once again. My belief is that any of Jamil or Chris' cousins can create a song with their macbooks and it doesn't even have to be that good, but as long as you come up with a dance to go along with it...you'll have a hit single.

This just in......Why is "Poak Chops" on itunes? You can buy this ridiculousness for $0.99 where listeners who purchased "Poak Chops" also purchased "Smell Yo Dick"...I said DAMN!!!!!

I can't even type anymore! This has gone too far!

This B!!!!TTT@@@@@HHHHH IS BEYOND RUDE....THIS BITCH IS JUST WRONG!!!!!! I'm soooo mad I can't even put his picture up!!!!!!!

Oh High Peezy is on the map and this time it's not because of Fantasia!!!

2009-06-06T23:03:00.000-07:00

So, thanks to one of my homeslices.....Juliet (aka Knuck If You Buck) I now have another video to post. We have her to thank for introducing me to Geisha of "I be shit'n on you hoe!!!!!" fame.

I've spent much time in High Point because that is where my oldest god-son lived with his mother and her family. Never in my life have I seen some shit like this. WHAT THE FUCK? "At the Red House, where black people and white people by furniture...and hispanics too!"

"I'm black and I love the Red House" Who gives a fuck? This is some dumb shit and I feel like I know some of the people in the commercial!

SMH: I DON'T GIVE A FUUUUUUUUUUCKKKKKK!!!!!

2009-06-06T22:52:00.000-07:00

Thank you Henoch '07, '08, '09, etc. etc. for posting this video on my facebook wall!!!!

This B!!!!!tttt@@@@hhhhhh is RUDE!!!!!!

Lady Gaga got poked in the face!!!!

2009-06-06T21:42:00.000-07:00

By now we must all admit that our lives have been touched by Lady Gaga in some form or fashion since she has burst on to the music scene with "Just Dance" last year (I think?). Her outfits are outrageous and her songs are catchy, but not at all original. I'm not hate'n because she is getting a check, I respect it. I even catch myself singing her songs in front of my computer at work or while driving in my car. My question is who styled her for the latest cover of Rolling Stone?

Exhibit A:

Is this her "Poker Face?" or did she get poked in the face?

Before she let this picture get published, she should have had a meeting with her star player in order to have avoided this. She has had many outrageous looks as seen below:

Exhibit:

B & C

I appreciate Lady Gaga because she owns the look, the persona, the life and not many performers do that anymore. Her music is infectious, but that damn cover makes her look like she had an infection in the FACE! How long do you think she can keep this up? Will she want to come from behind the make-up and wigs like KISS or the nose in the case of Shock-G? Will her lifestyle spin out of control from having to constantly be "ON" for her fans and the media like Sid Vicious or hell Whitney Houston?

I honestly don't have much to say about Lady Gaga because I don't really care, but when I have to see this cover at work the shit has gone too far!!!!

Thiiiiiisssss B!!!!tttt@@@@hhhhh is rude and so is the photographer and editor for putting this shit out to the public!!!!!!

Knuck if you Buck....B!t@h!!!

2009-05-24T20:12:00.000-07:00

Yo, peep this bullshit that happened to me all of last week. So, on Monday, I'm sitting in my office doing some work and trying to get organized for the summer and my personal cell phone rings. Now, usually I don't pick up numbers that I don't know, but since it was my personal cell I figured it could be an emergency and that it could be important...WRONG! I pick up and this woman from 847-289-2096 starts speaking really fast and I think to myself, self, who the fuck is this and what the fuck does she want? All I heard was something about debt solutions and sprint. So, I have another quick conversation with myself and ask "self, will I remain calm or will I have to check manners?" Self told me to play middle ground and see what's up.

I politely ask the white lady on the other line what she was talking about because I have not had service with sprint since 2006 when I moved to the middle of nowhere and could not get a signal. From what I recall the white lady's name was Sophia. I tell Sophia that I don't owe any money to sprint because I paid my last bill in full when I canceled my service. Sophia then tells me that I owe $400 and that I will pay it and how I was going to pay it!!!!!! Why the fuck did she do that? Here I am trying to be nice to the white lady and she pops off like that. Again, I say "self, how do you want me to respond?" Self says "Do you!" I tell Sophia that I'm not paying shit b/c I don't owe shit and I don't care what she says.

Do you know this bitch told me that there is a six year statute of limitation and that it is within that time frame and eligible for legal action. I told her "I don't give a FUCK!" She then proceeded to tell me that she will call me everyday and will even call my job and then the rude bitch hangs up on me...Why did she do that? I called on the Lord to be a fence to protect her from me b/c you know I couldn't go out like that...right?

I call back and some WENCH named Stacey (who I think is the same person as Sophia, but I digress) picks up the phone. I tell Stacey that "I would like to speak with a manager or supervisor about the disrespectful person that just called me with some bullshit and empty threats and then hung up on me. She then pops off at the mouth with the same disrespectful nonsense about me owing money...Hell to the motherfuckin' naw; I tell her that "they can call me everyday for the rest of my damn life b/c I don't give a damn about her or any other bill collector and that I can go back and forth for as long as she would like to and as for calling my job...that shit is a joke. I told her that I'd put her on speaker phone and allow everyone in the office to listen to the fuckery and then I hung up on her.

After that nonsense I call sprint and ask what's going on with this situation. Of course no one knows and I get hung up on at least 5 times because I refuse to hang up until someone with authority tells me something that I can believe. Don't get me wrong, if I had a bill that I did not pay then I would readily admit to it (like the bill for $250 that I owe to Mt. Sinai, but refuse to pay) and listen to what they have to say and then inform them if I will pay or not. I finally spoke with Jarrod on my 9th call to sprint and he makes some inquiries and then tells me that I have to speak with the debt collecting agency. To appease him I call on 3-way because I know how disrespectful the result will be. As predicted, Stacey gets it pop'n and we go back and forth with her raising her voice and me getting to that point of no return and calling her all kinds of bitches and motherfuckers I could think of. I may have even told her that I don't give a fuck about her or the horse she rode in on and maybe something about her mother too.

I try not to be too disrespectful, but she pushed some buttons and I think that I had a lot of pent up aggression from the people at my job and she just got all of it and believe me she deserved all of it. After that Jarrod tells me that he will escalate the situation and speak with his supervisors and that he will be in touch as soon as he has something to tell me.

Fast Forward (to make this long story short):
I'm in my car on my way to NYC for the memorial holiday and then I get a call from Jarrod. Of course he is telling me that he needs more time, but that I would need to call the debt collectors/Stacey/Sophia and get them explain something to me. I tell Jarrod that there is no way that I will do that b/c this mess was started by sprint and that sprint needs to fix it. I also explained that the people are too disrespectful for me to deal with. Do you know that Jarrod put me on hold and then calls Stacey on 3-way and of course I knew where it would end up. She starts with an attitude and I had to give her the business. I told her that I don't care what sprint sent her and that I needed to see a copy of whatever they sent b/c this is some ol' bullshit. She tells me that they did mail me letters on three separate occasions and that I received them and read them. By that point I was cursing again and I heard her rattle off some address and all I catch is 5C as the apt number.

Everyone who really knows me can attest to the fact that I have had many apartments while I was an undergraduate and graduate student in NC. I have sense enough to remember that i never live in an apartment with the #5 or letter "c." It then occurs to me that I went through all this bullshit because of one person....Please take a guess at who that person is.....Why the fuck is it my father that they are looking for? Why do we have to have the same name? Why am I going through the same scenario that he went through with his father? I failed to mention that I am the "3rd" in that namesake and God knows that I will be the last. My blood pressure was high b/c of his shit. I called, paged, and called again and did not get an answer. So, I did what any bitter child would do. I called my grandmother and told what was going on. As it turns out the story comes full circle b/c she is the one who gave my number to stacey/sophia. Well I'll be damned!!!!

This story has to come to an end and I will just tell you that she called them heiffers and resolved the situation and it is over on that front...However, you know I now have BEEF WITH MY FATHER!!!! He is nowhere to be found this weekend, but i'll catch up with him eventually b/c that B!!!!TTTT@@@@HHHH WAS RUDE!!!!!!!!!! As soon as I find a picture of him I will post it and I will put up a picture of what I think Stacey/Sophia looks like.......

"Special Friend" = Jump, Joint, Slide...Get over yourself!!!

2009-05-23T21:34:00.000-07:00

My people, my people!!!! It has been some time since I've posted and I apologize for the long absence, but life caught up with me. I recently came to NYC for some r&r (b/c you know this jet-setting lifestyle does take a toll) and I start hearing repeatedly about this DISRESPECTFUL letter that Russel Simmons' latest "trophy" posted on a website (I tried to find the original, but as of now I can't). After hearing about it I decided to read it for myself and this is what I found at Global Grind:

"I have been spending "special time" with Russell for about 4 months and in that time I have learned some subtle things about some in the black community that have surprised me. I must say that while it has been a bit of a challenge for me, it has also been a wonderful learning experience. I realize that in this day of Obama and change that there is still a tremendous amount of poverty, suffering and pain in the black community, and for that I am deeply sorry. But, I have to say the angry responses to those realities are sometimes misdirected....Just for the record, I am nobody’s white b*tch, gold digger or fame chaser. Nor am I any of the other mean things I have been called lately. I don't need anything from anybody, I come from a good family and I'm a young independent "successful" model making my way in NYC. (If you don't believe me google me or go to juliehenderson.net).

Finally, I just wanna say that Russell has been a great "special" friend and I'm sure as sh*t not giving him up cause some in America object to our friendship. I wanna close by saying, what Russell always says, Namaste. (That means the goddess in me recognizes the goddess in you)....Or, b*tch get your own man.

Love,
Julie"

I first ask, who the fuck is Julie Henderson? I googled the bitch and didn't find out anything about her and that bullshit website juliehenderson.net did not tell me shit. So, again I ask who the FUCK is Julie Henderson? Who is giving her that much press that she had to go and do some FOOLISH FUCKERY like that? Honestly, does anyone care who Russell is dating? Hell to the motherfucking NO! That phase in pop-culture passed a few years into his marriage to Kimora and even then people thought that was a ploy (I won't go there).

Second, what is with that bullshit she calls "special time" with Russell? Do I really care? No, because I don't give a fuck about the time she spends with him. I do know that any "special time" she spent with him did not allow for her to come to an understanding of the "perils of the black community" and that is for damn sure! Russell tries to keep a connection to the community with his Hip Hop activism and that tired ass Rush Card, but let's be for real...When was the last time you him in the hood kicking it with the people who put him on the map?

I wanna close by saying to Julie, let go of your Asmita and your fucked up and cloudy perception of reality might clear up!!!!

I know y'all (yes, I use y'all) support me in saying THIIIIIISSSSSS B!!!!!TTTT@@@@@HHH, yes that BBB!!!!ttt@@@@hhhhh right there is RUDE!!!!!!

Please check out this video by my new homie 4 lyfe (she doesn't know it yet, but she is now my friend) Jiatv (really, click the link) at her youtube site and let her talk to you for a minute....

Everybody wants to be a nigga, but nobody want to be a nigger!!!

2009-04-21T21:12:00.000-07:00

Did he just say nigga/nigger/niggah.....RUDE!!!

No BITCH@$$NE$$!!!

2009-04-21T20:42:00.000-07:00

So, it has been a while since I've posted to this wonderful world of blogging. You've missed me...right? Well, I have many instances of rudeness and fuckery to report to the world, but where should I begin?

Hmmmmmm....I'll start with the king of bitchassness himself, Sean Combs. I feel like I have a love/hate relationship with him because I remember when he was just Sean throwing parties in NYC at any venue that would allow him to. Some years back a neighbor of mine died in a stampede at one of his events and that i'll never forget. Anyhow, I watched last week's episode of MTB4 and appreciated how he handled the situation with that crazy ass Que, but was dumbfounded when he fired Aundrea. WTF???? Even if he had doubts about her because she wanted to quit the band at one point, doesn't the fact that she stayed around show some commitment when the other three dropped out of sight? He is always fucking something up and then blaming somebody else. Maybe the audience didn't get the entire picture of the behind the scenes drama because of editing and the focus that was being put on Day 26 and Donnie Klang. In my "humble" opinion he messed up a good thing by breaking up a money making and hit making group. I must confess that one of my guilty pleasures is the "Welcome to the Dollhouse" album.

R.I.P. Danity Kane & FUCK YOU SEAN "PUFFY, PUFF DADDY, P. DIDDY, DIDDY" COMBS!!! J/K J/K, but not really! Are you hiring? LOL

Thiiiiiiisssss B!!!!!tttt@@@@@hhhhh is Rude (But I will be burning his album when it comes out)!!!!!

Nasty B@st@rd really did shit on a hoe!!!!

2009-04-07T21:21:00.000-07:00

I am no hoe, but it was fitting to the scenario. So, I'm in my office this morning minding my business and writing out some Thank You cards to deserving people. Low and behold Mr. Jamil Jude comes in my office with his Michael Kors suit and begins to make the usual small talk. Ok, cool, he does this just about every day. Not a problem!

I notice that he disappears for a while and I proceed to go downstairs to talk with my supervisor. As I walk to the stairs I hear the fan in the bathroom running and figured he was in there. Again, I'm cool with it as long as he follows the note on the wall above the toilet!!!

When I go downstairs I end up talking with my supervisor for like 20 minutes in the common area on the second floor. Jamil walks through with his Michael Kors suit trying to floss and I respect it. He's trying to do the grown man thing. I go back upstairs and realize that I needed to go to the bathroom myself (I just had to #1). When I go to the toilet the seat is down. In my mind that means that his momma taught him some manners and he trying to finally show it! WROOOOOOOONGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HUGE FAIL..............why was there feces and urine in my toilet????? JTTW.....If I had eaten breakfast I would have lost it at that point b/c that was some nasty sh!t!!!!

I'm sorry if this story is more than you wanted to read, but I had to let the world know about Mr. J.D. Jude. I am so traumatized and can't hold it in any longer.......

Thiiiiiiiissssss B!!!!T@@@@@HHHHH
is rude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I Be Shit'n On You Hoe!!!!!

2009-04-05T21:24:00.000-07:00

"You don't want no problems 'cause pussy hoe i'll solve them?" Did we not learn anything from www.hotghettomess.com? I dedicate this video to Mr. Jude at http://mrjjude.tumblr.com/ because these are his people and we know how much he loves to rep Flo-Rida and to Mr. Ekpo because we know he'll pretty much listen to anything!!!! She talking about flea markets and ish...I wonder if that is where she purchased her fake Guchi(I know it is spelled Gucci, but we all know that what she has is not real) messenger bag and that Yaki weave? Did anybody else notice the girl in the video with the winter hat on and her ass crack and draaaawwwwsssss showing with her low-rise jeans? Geisha know she is wrong for this song and $2 video! I've given her enough free press.

I just had to say it....Thiiiiiissss BIIIIIITTTTT@@@@@HHHHHHH is RUDE!!!!!!

Mae Culpa

2009-04-05T20:41:00.000-07:00

It's a damn shame that I have to talk about myself on my own blog, but it must be done.

Last weekend there were a series of events at my job that I was in charge of carrying out. The motive behind the programs and discussions were meant to discuss "community" and how the different underrepresented groups could learn to foster "community" in this unnamed location. In light of me being stressed I thought the events were going great and that we were finally making some headway in creating a dialogue for change. One of the final events was a Formal dinner/dance and I begged my friend to attend because I wanted her there for support and to be there as I thanked the committee that helped to organize the event. My poor planning and lack of organization led to me forgetting to thank her and therefore rendering her invisible! This may not make sense to some who are reading this, but it does to me. My friend is Asian and deals with the bullshit of ignorance everyday at work and I always considered myself to be that person by her side to buck the system and hold "those" people accountable...little did I know (or did I?) that I could be as careless with her feeling and dismissive as the others. Once I sat down I immediately realized what I had done, but the deal had been sealed.

I often consider myself to be someone who is always thinking about the welfare of those who are being oppressed, being made to feel invisible, etc. yet I still made that mistake. I say all this to acknowledge that the "work" to be aware and stay aware does not stop and we must hold ourselves accountable to make sure that our actions, lack of knowledge, poor planning, and ignorance are not at the expense of others! I could have avoided the whole situation if I had taken the time to prepare what I was going to say, but I didn't and now I have to get over this hump and do better.

So I'm just gonna go ahead and say it because it's true.......thiiiiiiiisssss biiiiiiiiittchhhhh was rude!!!!!!!!!! (I can talk about myself, but I am not putting a picture up)

I believe the children are our future...MOTHA FUCKAS (SMH)

2009-03-23T18:37:00.000-07:00

RUDE!!!!!!

So Far Gone...Unnoticed (At least by me)

2009-03-23T17:30:00.000-07:00

Ladies and Gentlemen I have my 1st male B!t@h to add to "The B!t@h was rude". Do you want to know who this male is? His name is Aubrey Graham a.k.a. Drake and I have absolutely no clue about who he is, what he sounds like, or why he's such a big deal. What I do know is that he or his agent has issues and this will be a hindrance to any mediocre success he seeks.

An unnamed group was set on having "Drake" at an event at an unnamed institution and low and behold thiiiiiiiissss b!!!!!!!!!t@@@hhhh canceled on them. Now I know I could be missing some details, but when people work hard (extra hard) to raise money to bring you to a place where these types of events are wanted and needed you owe them something. I could see if he had an album released by a major label, but to my knowledge this is not the case.

The moral of the story ladies and gentlemen is to not jump on the bandwagon and work with bootleg artist and stick to established artist who will tell you straight up from the beginning that they're not interested or if the event will conflict with their schedule.

What rappers do you know from Canada? Well, K-OS, but other than that who? He must be So Far Gone to believe that Karma won't make him pay!
Thiiiiiiiisssss B!!!!!tttt@@@@hhhhh is rude!!!!!!!!

A.H.A.M. Rudeness

2009-03-22T20:35:00.000-07:00

So, as I surf the net this glorious day I find out details about the latest divorce to make the headlines. Marie Douglas-David, estranged wife of George David (former CEO of United Technologies) is saying that a $43 million dollar settlement is not enough!?!?

The above link from the National Ledger will give details, but she reportedly spends $8,000 dollars a week on travel expenses. Where the hell does she travel? Can I go? I'll even fly coach and bring my own snacks. I mean damn all I need is $500 to pay a credit card bill...can you help a brother out?

There are still victims from the Katrina fiasco without homes or land, there are people without jobs and unemployment benefits are drying up in many states and $43 million is not enough? I guess not because reportedly she is seeking $100 million.

Can I please say it? Can I? Ok.........thiiiiiiiiiis B!t@h is rude!!!!

Be a fence...

2009-03-21T00:45:00.000-07:00

So, after much debate and toil I have decided to create a blog that shows my general disgust with everything that is everything and for pure enjoyment.....Please trust and believe that NO ONE will be safe!!!!! I am often critical of my writing and how it will come off to others, but this blog is free from that and I will not be concerned with grammar, spelling or litigation.

Let the games begin!!!!